Appreciation

I’m sure that making quilts has different meanings for different people.  For me, especially when I’m making it for another person, I really try to make something that the person will like, something they want, something they will enjoy.  While there’s certainly a creative/artistic aspect to quiltmaking, I generally like to make them in the hopes that they are enjoyed and put to good use. So just imagine how tickled I was to get these pictures:

Could Marie’s kids possibly be any cuter? They’re adorable, and I’m so happy that they liked their new blankets.

Indeed, even my own little girl has gotten into the act, finally using one of the first doll quilts I made to “make baby all cozy.” Warms mama’s heart, to be sure.

Putting the doll quilt to use

Of course, there’s the flipside, when these things go off into nowhere and you have no idea if people are happy, disappointed, or indifferent.  Sadly, at the moment, that’s the status of my Doll Quilt Swap.  I sent the quilt, along with a charm pack I thought my partner would like and some treats for her dogs, early last week. Tracking info on the package was weirdly ambiguous, and no response to emails from our swap mama.  Obviously, I have no idea what’s going on with this person.  Part of me is really cranky about putting thought and effort into something and not getting so much as an acknowledgment of receipt.  But the mother in me worries. Is she OK? Is there something going on in her life?

Anyways, if she stumbles on this post at any point in time, I hope that she got it and likes it and that everything is alright.  And I did enjoy the process of coming up with something special for someone else, and hope to do another swap sometime soon.  But I won’t lie, it’s kind of rough to spend the time and energy making something essentially as a gift that you really hope they’ll like, and then… silence.

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  1. Amy - parkcitygirl’s avatar

    Oh Liz! That’s so hard – I hope that she is just on vacation and will get it and send you a note as soon as she returns!

    The pics of the kids with their quilts are adorable :)
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  2. Andi’s avatar

    I know that frustration!!! Hopefully there’s a good reason for the silence. But if there isn’t, try not to let it stop you from having another go.
    The photos of the little ones enjoying their quilts are precious. Let them be your heart warmers today!!
    Andi :-)

  3. Heather’s avatar

    What lovely pictures – I just ordered some “Oh Boy” fabric and can’t wait to use it!!!
    I agree that swaps are fun, but I too get irritated when so much effort is put in and you hear nothing – or even worse they don’t put the effort in on thier part. Hopefully it will all work out and there is some good explanation.
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  4. LauraC’s avatar

    Dang then I REALLY owe you some very belated photos!

    Because my boys have been sleeping with both the pillows and the blankets in their beds with them and their puppies every night since they got them! They will not go to sleep unless their puppies also have blankets and their puppies need to be tucked in every night as well. They have even taken the blankets to school for show and tell.
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  5. Rachel D.’s avatar

    Don’t give up Liz: maybe your swap lady is going through a difficult time. I remember feeling the same with a swap I didn’t hear of. So I went to visit her blog which was not update for months. And one day, I received news (and the swap present) from her: she had gone through professional and personal problems which explained the delay. Hoping this will chear you up… a little bit.
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  6. Jackie’s avatar

    That is just a wonderfully heart warming picture. I love the fact that they love the quilts. They are cute and the quilts are just right for them. I hope you find out what happened to your swap quilt.
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  7. Marie’s avatar

    I’m so sorry that she hasn’t gotten back to you yet but I’m sure there are circumstances surrounding the situation. I hope it doesn’t deter you because your quilts are awesome! I keep seeing the others ones you made and think, “Dang! I want that one, too!” :) I know you like going with what “they” want, but I hope you always give advice, too, because I’m glad you suggested putting orange into Ethan’s, because I LOVE the results! :)

  8. Helen’s avatar

    Oh Liz, great post! Well said with grace. :) Its the down sides of swaps, most people play nicely…… I would have been so happy to get your quilt, your work is just lovely, a fresh zing of colours. Thank you for being such a great swap bebe too.
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